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Having your second child is an exciting time, but it can also be stressful for your first child, who suddenly goes from being your single child, an older brother or sister. If your only child is 2 or 10, there will be an adjustment period for him or her. Fortunately, there are some things you can do as parents to help them prepare for their new role. Here are some ideas:
Big Brothers Big Sisters are special. Speak in positive terms to them about what it means to be SIS heavy or big brother. Really play their new role and help them feel special and necessary. You want to discuss how they can help and how your baby will need. You may want to assign a specific task, something age appropriate. For younger children, fetching diapers for you might be a good one. Help your child to enjoy how much you need their help. At the same time, do not go too far and talk about the baby too. Your old child is unique and needs to understand that your love for him, definitely.
Do not expect other major changes. This is not a good time to introduce other changes major in their lives, such as potty training, different sleeping arrangements or other similar change. You do not want them down or add any additional stress their life or yours. If your toddler is still nursing, there is no reason to stop during your pregnancy and even afterwards, when the baby arrives. Many mothers have found that tandem nursing (breastfeeding siblings who are twins) is extremely rewarding and wonderful way to ease the transition for the older child. When they are assured of your place in their lap, they are not as likely to be jealous or returned the new baby.
Speaking to them. Children understand more than we think. Then spend some time talking with them about the great event. You can tell them what happens when you have the baby, where they will stay and what to expect. If you encounter the baby at home or in birthing centers, you might consider allowing them to be with you during childbirth. Children are close by the mother during her labor are more likely to consider the baby as "our" instead of an alien intruder! Some parents have found it useful to read books that talk about getting a new baby at home. These often explain how new-born need constant care and feeding.
Get help. Ranging from one to two (or two or three, and again and again!) Is a wonderful time to ask friends, family, Grandparents and others for some help. While you and baby are resting, someone could play with your child, arrange a playdate or take them to the park for a couple of hours? A Little Extra one on one time with a beloved adult can compensate for the fact that you are going to give the baby a little less attention for some time. It is a time for Dad to step too. Although it does need time to create links with the newborn, this may be a period of growth in the older child as he kisses her father as someone who can also meet their needs.
Watch your language. When the baby arrives, be careful not to phrase things. If your older child asks you something and you can not help because you are caring for the baby, not to "blame" it on the baby. Say something like: "My hands are busy now, but I can play with you in a few minutes. Why do not you come snuggle next to me and I'll read you a story? "
Another tip that some moms have found helpful is to talk to the older child for the baby. We moms love to go ga-ga over our babies, but why not brag about brothers and sisters older? "Ooh look at that big brother is doing! He built a tower of blocks and it is sooooo high! "This can boost the heart of the elder with pride.
Do not feel guilty. It is very common for mothers to feel guilty about moving their older children, but children have been dealing with the arrival of brothers and sisters from the beginning of time! They are very good, and thus obtain a playmate and perhaps a lifelong friend. Be positive about the transition and your child will probably return on your emotions.
About the Author:
Carrie Lauth is a work at home, homeschooling mom of 4 and the voice behind
Natural Moms Talk Radio
, a free weekly internet talk radio show and podcast for natural families.
Article Source: ArticlesBase.com - Tips For Preparing Your Only Child to Become a Sibling
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